A Funeral in a Field: Why More Families Are Choosing Natural Burial Grounds

(Because not everyone digs convention — see what we did there?!)

Once upon a time, funerals followed a script.
Same time slot. Same tone. Same air of sombre reverence with The Lord’s Prayer for good measure and a Hammond organ playlist.

But things are changing.

More families are saying, “Hang on — does it have to be this way? Bob/Sue/Dan just wasn’t like that.”
And the answer is: absolutely not.

Welcome to the rise of the natural burial ground.
No gloomy chapels. No conveyor-belt service.
Just fresh air, open skies, and a funeral that actually feels like the person it’s for.

What Is a Natural Burial Ground?

Think fields, woods, wildflowers, birdsong.

No polished gravestones. No plastic flowers.
Usually the grave isn’t marked at all — you’ll just have a map and tree to find for your person and, if you’re a nature-loving eco-warrior, what could be better?

Just people laid to rest in biodegradable coffins or handmade shrouds, surrounded by nature and remembered in a way that’s calm, kind, and completely personal.

Some are part of working farms.
Some are tucked in woodlands.
Some are so peaceful you forget you’re at a funeral at all — until you hear someone say, “That was… beautiful.”

Deb Reed one of our Celebrants conducted this funeral ceremony and scatering of ashes at a family farm in Essex

Why People Are Choosing Them

More time — You’re not rushed out the door in 20 minutes because the next slot’s waiting
More freedom — You can shape the ceremony to suit your person
More connection — It feels grounded, real, rooted
More eco-friendly — No concrete, no metal, no fuss

Sometimes conventional cemeteries have a natural space, too – Kate T’s already got her eye on this dingly dell at the back of Hasting cemetery. 🙂

 

 

Often you’re given a whole-day slot, so you can:

  • Have a picnic afterwards
  • Sing during the service
  • Tell stories round a firepit
  • Play games (yes, really)
  • Walk the dog up to the grave next week and say, “Hiya.”

And best of all?
You can choose a celebrant who’ll help you create something human, honest and heartfelt.

What It Means to Be a Celebrant in These Spaces

This is where celebrants shine.

They’re not tied to timing or scripts.
They’re not limited to religious or civil wording.
They’re there to craft a ceremony that fits the location, the people, the moment — and the person who’s died.

At Match and Dispatch, our funeral celebrant training means learning how to hold space anywhere.
Back gardens, barns, and yes — beautiful burial grounds.

Kate T and Kate D have led funerals with:

  • Painted cardboard coffins
  • Shrouds made with love
  • Candle ceremonies at sunset
  • Grandchildren playing piano
  • Dress codes, singalongs and even video montages

If it’s meaningful to the family and represents the person who’s died — they’re all in.

Could You See Yourself Doing This Work?

Being a funeral celebrant isn’t about following rules.
It’s about showing up with compassion, listening carefully, and telling someone’s story with heart.

 

If you’ve ever sat at a funeral and thought, this could be better — maybe you’re the one to do it.

 

 

 

 

We won’t pretend it’s easy. But we will say it’s worth it.
And we can show you how to begin.

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Funerals are changing.
Maybe you’re meant to be part of that.

Viva,
Kate and Kate x